A very happy Ramnavami to all of you. Today being the birthday of Sri Ram(although there is nothing like that) let us understand some important qualities of Sri Ram.
1) One important quality of ram as said by the citizens of ayodhya(when dasharath asks their opinion about crowning ram as the king) is that ram used to be like a kid when talking to them, an adult when with his friends, an elderly person when in company with elderly people etc. ie he did not behave like a prince with everyone. Ram was humility personified.
2)Another important quality comes to the fore when ram was asked to leave the kingdom and go to the forest by kaikeyi.
Ram was to be crowned the very next day. There were celebrations in ayodhya. No one even had a clue that such a thing would happen. That night kaikeyi puts forth her condition to dasharath. When people saw Dasharath coming out of kaikeyi's room they could figure out that something was wrong. The tension and grief was visible in his face. He did not say anything. Ram realizing that something was wrong goes to kaikeyi's room. Valmiki describes ram here the way people saw him. He was still carrying his trademark smile.
So any normal persion would ve got stunned on hearing the words of Kaikeyi. But Ram was not like us laymen. On hearing the words of Kaikeyi how did ram react?
Valmiki describes his face again. There was no change in his facial expressions. He still had the trademark smile. He said smilingly to kaikeyi not to worry. He asks kaikeyi why she did not talk to him directly. He told her that it was a non-issue and that he would go to the forest.
So after this when ram came out, many of the palace staff had assembled outside the room of kaikeyi, waiting to see ram's face. Valmiki again describes that his face was as pleasant as it had been when he entered her room!
Ram was happy because he had no expectations. A person gets depressed mainly when he has some expections and those are not fulfilled.
3) The third important quality of ram is his management skills. Ram meets Dasharatha after meeting kaikeyi. Dasharath clearly says that ram cannot leave to the woods. Ram gives answers to every question raised by Dasharath and pacifies him. Then goes to his mother, Kausalya. She orders ram not to go. She quotes the vedas "Matru devo bhava" and says that he cannot violate her orders since she is superior to her husband. Ram again explains the meaning of the verses and pacifies her too.(It is not easy to pacify a woman).In this way he pacifies everyone and leaves ayodhya. This is the tension-free persona that we all aspire.
We cant be like ram(obviously). But atleast to some extent we develop some of these qualities and lead a tension-free life.
1) One important quality of ram as said by the citizens of ayodhya(when dasharath asks their opinion about crowning ram as the king) is that ram used to be like a kid when talking to them, an adult when with his friends, an elderly person when in company with elderly people etc. ie he did not behave like a prince with everyone. Ram was humility personified.
2)Another important quality comes to the fore when ram was asked to leave the kingdom and go to the forest by kaikeyi.
Ram was to be crowned the very next day. There were celebrations in ayodhya. No one even had a clue that such a thing would happen. That night kaikeyi puts forth her condition to dasharath. When people saw Dasharath coming out of kaikeyi's room they could figure out that something was wrong. The tension and grief was visible in his face. He did not say anything. Ram realizing that something was wrong goes to kaikeyi's room. Valmiki describes ram here the way people saw him. He was still carrying his trademark smile.
So any normal persion would ve got stunned on hearing the words of Kaikeyi. But Ram was not like us laymen. On hearing the words of Kaikeyi how did ram react?
Valmiki describes his face again. There was no change in his facial expressions. He still had the trademark smile. He said smilingly to kaikeyi not to worry. He asks kaikeyi why she did not talk to him directly. He told her that it was a non-issue and that he would go to the forest.
So after this when ram came out, many of the palace staff had assembled outside the room of kaikeyi, waiting to see ram's face. Valmiki again describes that his face was as pleasant as it had been when he entered her room!
Ram was happy because he had no expectations. A person gets depressed mainly when he has some expections and those are not fulfilled.
3) The third important quality of ram is his management skills. Ram meets Dasharatha after meeting kaikeyi. Dasharath clearly says that ram cannot leave to the woods. Ram gives answers to every question raised by Dasharath and pacifies him. Then goes to his mother, Kausalya. She orders ram not to go. She quotes the vedas "Matru devo bhava" and says that he cannot violate her orders since she is superior to her husband. Ram again explains the meaning of the verses and pacifies her too.(It is not easy to pacify a woman).In this way he pacifies everyone and leaves ayodhya. This is the tension-free persona that we all aspire.
We cant be like ram(obviously). But atleast to some extent we develop some of these qualities and lead a tension-free life.